Meet the Lens Ladies Distortions
<center>Payne's<br/>Powerlessness</center> <center>Chevy's<br/>Control <br/><strong>LONE RANGER</strong></center> <center>Victoria's<br/><small>Voicelessness</small></center> <center>Joni <small><i>the</i></small> Jetsam<br/>REGRET<br/><i>"If Only"</i></center> <center>Sheila's<br/>Shame</center> <center>Reba's<br/>Responsibility</center> <center>Polly <i>the</i><br/>Pleaser</center> <center>Ingrid's<br/>Insignificance</center> <center>Ursula's<br/>Unworthiness</center> <center>Charlee's<br/>Competition</center> <center>Prentiss <i>the</i> <br/>Perfectionist</center> <center>Lena's Lonliness</center>
Sample lenses in which women commonly distort themselves
DISTORTED LENS of SHAME “If they really knew how horrible I am.”

DISTORTED LENS of PLEASING

 “If I please others’ they will like me.”

DISTORTED LENS of a PERFECTIONIST

 “Everything must be perfect.”

  I have to be perfect (good, compliant).“

DISTORTED LENS of REGRET

 “If only I had been a better wife, he would not have left.”

DISTORTED LENS of INSIGNIFICANCE

 “I do not really matter to anyone.” 

DISTORTED LENS of LONELINESS

 “I am not in love with him anymore.” 

DISTORTED LENS of POWERLESSNESS

 “Others always have it together.”

DISTORTED LENS of VOICELESSNESS

 “No one ever listens to me.”

DISTORTED LENS of CONTROL

 “I have to take care everything or it will all fall apart.”

DISTORTED LENS of RESPONSIBILITY

 “If I don’t do it, no one else will; others always let me down;

  I must oversee every aspect to make sure things are done correctly.”      

DISTORTED LENS of UNWORTHINESS

 “I am too messed up to be loved.”

DISTORTED LENS of COMPETITION

 “I must win at all costs.”

 

 

 

 

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